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Modern Rituals – Addendum

In a world addicted to noise, silence has become the last act of faith.

There was a time when silence meant presence. Now it feels like absence. We fill every crevice of consciousness with commentary, fearing what the quiet might reveal. Yet beneath the noise, small rituals still survive – gestures that whisper rather than shout, full of love, hope, and protection.

This essay continues the “Modern Rituals” series – reflections on how the sacred survives in the gestures of everyday life.


The Rituals of Noise

We have mistaken volume for vitality.
Every day begins with a buzz, ends with a scroll, and in between, we drown in the sound of our own broadcasting. We talk about “connection”, but what we crave is confirmation – that we still exist, that we still matter, that the world hasn’t forgotten our name in the feed.

Noise has become our modern incense.
We burn it constantly, afraid of what might appear in the silence that follows. Our need to comment, reply, and react has become a liturgy without faith – movement without meaning.

In The Guardian, Shadi Khan Saif writes: “People survive not just through faith but through the small things they do when no one’s watching; the quiet rituals and little beliefs that live in everyday life.” It’s a gentle reminder that not all worship happens in temples or timelines. The true gestures of the soul are small, unpublicised, and wordless.

Our modern rituals, by contrast, are noisy because they are insecure. The louder we shout, the less we seem to believe in what we’re saying. We’ve built an economy of attention where silence is treated as a fault in the system. Algorithms panic when you pause. Apps prod you back to speech. Even grief now comes with a “share” button.

The tragedy isn’t that we’ve lost the divine.
It’s that we’ve lost the quiet in which the divine could once be heard.

The Return to the Whisper

And yet – not all is lost.
Saif’s piece reminds us: “They’re not loud, not official. But they’re full of love and hope.” Somewhere beneath the static, small acts of reverence still survive – lighting a diya at dusk, a hand over the heart before a flight, a whispered “thank you” to no one in particular. These are our unnoticed prayers, carried out in the hush between larger noises.

In the old texts, silence was a sign of listening; in our time, it has become an act of rebellion. To sit still for ten minutes without touching a device is now radical. To walk without earbuds is a pilgrimage. To look at the sky without photographing it is prayer.

“These seemingly small gestures,” Saif observes, “hold more than superstition. They carry virtues: grounding, comfort and a deep sense of protection.” That, perhaps, is what the whisper really is – a reminder that truth doesn’t compete for your attention. It waits.

Maybe silence was never meant to be an escape, but a return – the slow homecoming of awareness to itself. The whisper, whether it comes from a prophet, a verse, or the soft interior of your own breath, is the same voice that has always spoken beneath the noise. We just need to stop long enough to hear it.

Epilogue: The Sound of Returning

Silence was once a homeland.
Every word began from it, every prayer returned to it. We have wandered far, building temples of noise, mistaking echoes for answers. But perhaps the sacred was never lost – only muffled beneath our constant need to speak.

In the beginning, there was no command, no thunder, no proclamation. There was only breath – the same breath that stirs the reed, the same that carries a whisper across a room. Maybe God still speaks that way. Maybe the divine frequency has not changed – only our bandwidth has.

When the noise fades, what remains is not emptiness, but presence.
It is in that quiet that the world becomes audible again – the heartbeat of things, the rustle of what endures.

So, close the tab.
Let the room go still.
And listen – not for what’s next, but for what has always been speaking softly beneath it all.

“People survive not just through faith but through the small things they do when no one’s watching; the quiet rituals and little beliefs that live in everyday life. They’re not loud, not official. But they’re full of love and hope. These seemingly small gestures … hold more than superstition. They carry virtues: grounding, comfort and a deep sense of protection.”
– Shadi Khan Saif, “Spirituality isn’t rigid dogma. It’s a living, breathing practice that helps make sense of an incomprehensible world,”
The Guardian, 20 October 2025. Read full article →

 

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The Divine Umbilical Cord: On Forgetting, Remembering, and Enlightenment

Revised article published on 26 September 2025.

Preface

This series began with a restlessness I couldn’t shake. Why do our souls choose to forget? Why is it that we arrive in this life stripped of the stories that shaped us before? Somewhere between the rat race and the silence of meditation, I kept circling this question until it demanded to be written down.

What follows are not revelations, nor the words of a guru. I am not a preacher, nor do I claim any special authority. These are the ruminations of a middle-aged man – an ordinary traveller, trying to make sense of the fragments that rise unbidden: déjà vu, compulsions, sudden affinities, the deep hunger for meaning.

As I wrote, I stumbled into old maps – Greek myths, Buddhist teachings, other Indian philosophies. I found mirrors in Freud and Jung, and even in the language of trauma and neuroscience. And sometimes the body itself spoke in metaphor – the placenta, the umbilical cord, the stem cell – as if flesh had been carrying truths the mind had long forgotten.

I did not set out to be comprehensive or conclusive. I wrote simply to see more clearly, to catch the signal beneath the static. If these essays do anything, I hope they remind you that the cord was never cut. We are tethered, sustained, carried – even in our forgetting. And in the quiet moments when the noise recedes, you may hear it too.

 

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